I October, 2015
The day when I just break up my friendship with my very
close friend, and the reason for the breakup was ,a confusion , which was
bought my another friends of ours.
As she was arrogant to me while the talk, so was I , and due
to the rude talk between ous. And not realizing or listening to the points,
which was the main reason for the break up.
I just left talking with her, and have just deleted her
number from my phone, but ofcourse I couldn’t
delete her number from my mind. Which was saved as a memory in my mind.
As the day passes away , I planned to just change my number,
I know it was a not good decision to be taken. As I have already changed four
number in the last four months, and due to this , I have been scolded by my
parents. “KI KITNA NUMBER CHANGE KARTA HAI TUM AUR KAHE”, I have the same
repeated answer to give back , tower ka problem tha who sim ke saath .
But at last I changed my number, and this time I thought not
to distribute the number, as I used to do.This time I only gave the number to
my parents and my close ones.
I just wanted to move forward in my life, and concentrate on
my work and my future, par log kehtey hai na kehna aasaan hai aur karna muskil,
mere saath bhi kuch aesa hi hua. I used to plan but was unable to execute.
Then my brother ,he was my friend too ,as when ever I used
to get tensed or worried, I used to discuss the matter with my brother , and
asked him for the solution. He used to tell me start focusing on your carrier ,
plan and execute the things you want to do. Work hard , study, because study
and knowledge doesn’t get waste. It just enhances with the passes of the time.
My brother was a very big inspiration for me , as he used to
show me right path and increases my
will power too.
After few months of passes, I received a text message in my
facebook, which was of the same girl, which I thought to forget. I believe
every people who come in our life , come for a reason , and has a part to play
in our life, for realising our mistakes, and making ous familiar with what is
life.
Life has many chapters, every chapter has certains
character, which we meet in our day today life, and get experienced,
experienced may be good and bad, some gives us happiness and other sorrow. And
so it is said also life has two taste ,one is sweet and other is sour.
I have met many people in my life, and get to know everyone
has different thought and feeling. And so are the friends forms , whose
thoughts matches with the other , they become friends.
As I said before , life is a play , which contains many
characters with different roles, each has a lessons to teach us, to get
experienced, in order, to just move forward in life.
I have many friends, which includes my seniors in my office,
few just teaches us how to grow and success in life , and how to just adjust
with the situation, and few are their who just says ki what you did was right ,
and few are ……..who says , how to just improve on that.
Its very had for everyone , to just decide which person
suggestion is right or wrong? And this is the stage which makes us perfect and
imperfect .
Because the decision, we take that time by listening other
thoughts makes the type of character in lifes.
We should listen to other thoughts, but should do what’s
basically shoots us, means to listens other thoughts and to just take good one
of that , because every person thoughts differs, at the last it is up to us to
take the decision , and move forward in life , and the decision which we, take
or we can say the direction we choose to move forward, makes the type or the
character to plays.
Every one has chance to become rich and to get success in
,life , whether it be the case of cracking iitjee or the cat exam , whats
matters is the decision, which we take(the steps) which we take to just move.
You all have listen and noticed in papers and blogs that a
poor family , a riskhaw wala daughter , or son has just scored first rank or
top at cbse or cracked iit jee.
Its because the path , the direction the choose for it.
Few have thoughts that rich people have all comforts ,
that’s why they just don’t realise the value of top(rank) and all . and poor
peoples have many difficulties(huddles) in their life, and their children just
sees the conditions, and just get motivated to study ,
But this is not the case always , its correct but not fully, as it depends on the
candidates will power, and hard work , I told you before about the
direction(which basically matters , the kind of person we become).
